About Me

My Story

Hello!

I’m Emma Cossey, a long-term freelancer, mum and all round digital geek, with late diagnosed ADHD (which means I have a huge bag of motivation and dopamine hacks!) and I’m happy to welcome you to The Freelance Lifestyle.

I launched this blog in 2011, to provide freelancers with down-to-earth support, and practical advice. I wanted it to be a kind, supportive place to get tips and advice on living a great freelance life (without the constant narrative of ‘earn six figures or you’re failing’).

Since then, the community has morphed into that friendly and honest place I dreamt of visiting when I first started out as a freelancer back in 2009. The space to celebrate successes, discuss the challenging elements of freelancing, and to connect with others on the same path. Because working on your own shouldn’t mean being alone!

What’s here for you?

I’ve spent years building up my own freelance business. I’ve been a pro blogger, a social media consultant, a copywriter, a teacher… but my passion is helping people just like you take the next step. So whether you want to pick up tips from the blog, listen in to the podcast, come join the Facebook group or get some more focused 1-2-1 support with my coaching, there’s something here for you.

Fancy having a no-strings chat about your next steps? Send me a message.

My Values

Here in the Freelance Lifestyle community, I am are dedicated to fostering a community that is inclusive, kind, and supportive. My core values guide everything we do:

Kindness: I believe in treating everyone with respect and compassion. The community is built on empathy and understanding. Bullying and hatred have no place here.

Flexibility: I understand that everyone’s journey is unique. I provide flexible support and resources tailored to individual needs, especially when there are many in the community who are neurodivergent, have a disability or chronic health condition, other responsibilities they have to juggle, or mental health challenges. You won’t find pressure to run a six figure business here (but if you do, we’ll celebrate with you too! Everyone has their own definition of success).

Freedom: I champion the freedom to work in ways that best suit you. My goal is to empower you to live and work on your own terms. Which is why you’ll never find me saying ‘this is the ONLY way to do this’ or ‘consistency is king’. You’re more likely to hear ‘how can you do this in a way that works for you?’

Connection: I value meaningful connections. Our community thrives on collaboration, networking, and genuine support for one another. But also….there are lots of introverts in the group. So it’s totally find if you want to connect in a way that works for you.

Comfort: I strive to create a comfortable and welcoming environment where you can feel at ease while pursuing your freelance career. I want to create a cosy, cafe vibe for you.

I am committed to creating a safe space for all communities. I stand with Black Lives Matter, Palestine and proudly support the LGBTQIA+ community as an ally. At Freelance Lifestyle, everyone is welcome, and diversity is celebrated – whether that’s race, gender, family make up (many in the community are childless through choice or not, and that’s something I’m trying to be more conscious of in my language) and whether you’re able-bodied or differently-abled. I am constantly learning, will make mistakes and I’m open to any feedback or suggestions on how I can make it more inclusive.

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